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Wedding Day Timeline Builder
Let's work on the first draft of your Wedding Day Timeline. Walk through this form, and it will help build up your timeline the way I would: backwards from the ceremony, forward into reception, and with buffers and photography accounted for. Once you're done, bring it to our live calls to check it out and confirm with your vendors that this works for them too!
1. The basics
Why I ask: Your ceremony start is the anchor. Everything before it gets counted backward, everything after it gets counted forward. Nothing gets written until this is set.
If your officiant has given you a length, enter it below and it wins.
Churches usually have a time cap on photos at the altar and a time you need to be out.
2. Getting from place to place
Why I ask: Travel is where timelines fall apart. I add real minutes for the drive plus the part everyone forgets: getting fifteen people, a dress, and a bouquet into the vehicles. Estimate each leg with a maps app, and I'll add the loading time.
3. The people
Why I ask: The morning is math, not vibes. How many people are in a chair, how many artists are working, and how many family groupings you want all decide when your alarm goes off.
Hair and makeup
A note on the chair order: Your beauty vendor decides who sits when, and they will probably rearrange whatever we put here. That's fine. I'm calculating total time, not who goes first. Confirm the order with your artist.
Family photos
Build your list in my shot list tool (photographer vendor section) and count the groupings.
Without one, family photos take about 50% longer. Pick a loud cousin.
4. Your photographer
Why I ask: A posed, editorial photographer needs noticeably more time than a documentary photographer for details, couple portraits, and the wedding party. Neither is wrong. But your timeline has to be built for the one you hired.
Not sure? Ask them. "Do you pose us a lot, or mostly capture things as they happen?" Blended is the safe guess.
5. Your photo path
Why I ask: First look or no first look is the single biggest fork in your day. With one, most of your portraits happen before the ceremony. Without one, they happen during cocktail hour. Both are beautiful; this just tells me where to place your photo time.
Look it up for your exact date and town. Exact wins over my estimate.
Photographer note: Your best portrait light is thirty minutes to an hour before the sun actually goes down. Once you're inside that last half hour, it's gone. I'll place your step-out accordingly.
6. The reception
Why I ask: Every moment you add is a moment the music stops and people sit back down. Pick the ones that are yours. Everything you cut goes back to the dance floor.
7. Vendor constraints
Why I ask: Venue access secretly controls everything. If florals can't load in until noon, your ceremony cannot be at noon. And your photographer's coverage window has to actually contain the photos you asked for.
One last thought from me: Building in buffers is crucial for giving yourself time to catch up or simply enjoy being present with your favorite people. I'm going to include them in your timeline, please check with your vendors to ensure it works for them!
